15th Week in Ordinary Time: Not so Ordinary!

Sisters of Bon Secour in Mariottsville, MD.

Sisters of Bon Secour in Mariottsville, MD.

Deuteronomy 30:10-14 ~ No, it is something very near to you, already in your moths and in your hearts; you have only to carry it out.

Psalm 69 ~ I am afflicted and in pain; let your saving help, O God, protect me!

Paul to 2 Timothy 1-8 ~ The Spirit that God has given us is no cowardly spirit, but rather one that makes us strong, loving, and wise.

Gospel according to Luke 10:25-37 ~ But because the scholar of the law wished to justify himself, he said to Jesus, “And who is my neighbor?” Jesus replied, “A man fell victim to robbers as he went down from Jerusalem to Jericho. They stripped and beat him and went off leaving him half-dead. A priest happened to be going down that road, but when he saw him, he passed by on the opposite side. Likewise a Levite came to the place, and when he saw him, he passed by on the opposite side. But a Samaritan traveler who came upon him was moved with compassion at the sight. He approached the victim, poured oil and wine over his wounds and bandaged them. Then he lifted him up on his own animal, took him to an inn, and cared for him…”

Homily Given at Bon Secour 

Susan was a good Catholic girl from a good Catholic family. Susan had just received her doctorate in psychology when she woke up with a dilemma. She had separated from her husband, she was hoping to somehow patch up her battered and stunted marriage together for she truly didn’t believe in divorce. She truly loved her husband yet was painfully acknowledging her mistakes and irreconcilable differences.

The day of her graduation she realized she was pregnant and the father was not her husband.

Sometimes we think that we could never get into such a messy situation or a ditch like the man who fell victim to robbers. And then it somehow happens and we feel so small, so very small. . .  while the problem seems to get bigger and bigger.

Susan deliberately went against her beliefs about abortion out of fear and backed by the folly of our society. As a practicing psychologist she had tormenting thoughts and feelings that followed her abortion.

Susan once told me: “More than a baby would die in that room… Once I had had a personality, a life, a soul. Now I was a body with broken pieces inside.” Susan was more than half dead.

Susan’s personal drama depicts the anguish of many women who have realized too late that they have destroyed a life. So often we see them in the ditch and we cross to the opposite side of the street and keep going. We judge and condemn. Jesus is addressing this parable to the priests (including bishops and deacons) and all faithful Catholics. Jesus is telling us that we do not see our neighbors… all of them.

Jesus is the Good Samaritan. He comes to those in the ditch. Jesus rescued almost all of the main characters and saints of our faith like Saul/Paul, Mary of Magdela, Ignatius of Loyola, Francis of Assisi, Jacob, Joseph and countless others.  He did it with King David who did something more despicable than our obsession with what we perceive justice or lack of in the Zimmerman trial.  King David committed adultery with his soldier’s wife, conspired to murder her husband to cover up the child, and then married the woman. David compromised his integrity and ability to rule. When David admitted his guilt and the consequences from God, he became a more compassionate and effective king than if he never sinned so horrifically. The entire church recites his prayer of repentance at least every Friday morning in Psalm 51.

For Susan, it was a gradual healing through God’s forgiving love. The letter of Paul to Timothy says: The Spirit that God has given us is no cowardly spirit, but rather one that makes us strong, loving, and wise.

It goes on: Therefore, never be ashamed of your testimony to our Lord.” God made Susan strong, loving, and wise. Jesus lifted Susan out of that ditch when everyone else passed her by. Jesus had already forgiven her. God had plans for Susan.

But first she had to face depression that brought her to the brink of suicide, a raging husband, and a divorce with hardly a fair settlement. The rejection of her father and mother whom she thought the world of compounded the oppressive misery of her ditch. The same physician/father that was gentle with a friend of hers who had hemorrhaging after someone performed an abortion was not gentle with her daughter.

Susan had to rely on no cowardly spirit. She forgave those who robbed her of so much. She forgave herself. She has a most joyful spirit!

Susan was a woman who combined a high-risk openness with a vision that embraces human hurting and God’s healing. “Therefore, never be ashamed of your testimony to Our Lord.” Susan knows how it is to wear the big Scarlet Letter “A”, and I don’t mean just adultery.

Susan’s full name is Susan M. Stanford-Rue, PhD. She proclaims the Gospel of Jesus Christ and the healing forgiveness of God through three ways: through her lectures, through her post abortion trauma counseling to many broken women, and through her book, Will I Cry Tomorrow?


The priest and Levite were simply following the laws, but Jesus insists that the Law of Love is written on our hearts and souls. If we have the courage to realize that many times we all cross the street when we see someone in the ditch, then we are more open to see Jesus as the Good Samaritan when it is actually you or me in the ditch desperate for love, breath, and acceptance. Then, and only then, does Jesus trust us to heal others in the ditches of life.

We all need healing in our dark secrets of life. Trying to justify ourselves only leads us further away from love and compassion. Jesus demands that after we are rescued from our horrific experiences of life, we need to go and do the same with great love.

*Incidentally, all royalties and all profits Susan makes on the book are donated to Pro Life.

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2 thoughts on “15th Week in Ordinary Time: Not so Ordinary!

  1. I have someone in my life who is on danger of committing this same situation. How difficult to set back and watch your grandchild falling into sins of the flesh. Dear Jesus give me the wisdom to know how to help.

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  2. Fr. when does Faith and sharing start officially. there is a lot going on with bills here and medicare to take care of when they want more money and all of the other things I have no clue about but I am learning. I have Dennis Guidi and David Dunlap for lawyers so they are scrambling it all out. I may just come during the day to get a lot of inspireation and love from all Not to spend the nights. I now live along so I have to leave an empty house. I am also a little frightened leaving an empty house and driving at night. I also have 3 cats I really don’t want anything to happen too. I am sure God will take care of me going home before Dark. God Bless You, Mary

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